For any of you who have ever planned a wedding, you know it is a LONG process filled with dozens of appointments, more email and phone correspondences than you probably want to count, and decisions on details you never even thought actually mattered (or existed). Now don’t get me wrong, all the planning and time is definitely worth it (if you can keep your sanity), but it is extremely and painfully understandable that the whole idea makes some couples want to just run off to Vegas and never look at another fabric swatch again. But before you go to that extreme, there’s another option: Destination Wedding.
You might think I’m crazy for having just said that, because it honestly makes zero sense that planning a huge, life-changing event like a wedding would be less stressful long distance. But hear me out. You’ve got tons of friends and family at home that want nothing more than to come to your wedding and support you. And while that’s wonderful, that’s also the cause of a lot of stress. The more people in attendance = the more planning you need to do, and on a larger scale. A destination wedding makes it very easy to say that it’s just going to be the two of you and immediate family (and maybe a couple of particularly close friends). And what’s more, when it’s completely impractical for you to go meet with a bunch of vendors and be physically present for every single detail, you can relax. Skype and picture messages suddenly become perfectly acceptable means of communication and approval.
And I haven’t even gotten to the best part yet. Florida business people and wedding planners have actually realized that coming here from all over for a simple, beautiful wedding is not a trend – it’s here to stay. So, it’s quite easy to find full-service wedding planners and coordinators who will take care of darn near everything for you. They find and book the venue, reserve a block of rooms at a reputable and near-by hotel, take care of all the decorations and flowers, find you an officiant or justice of the peace, take care of the music, cake and food… you name it, they do it. You might think just anyone can do this back where you’re from. But that’s unfortunately just not the case. If you’re working with a company and/or an individual who is used to working face-to-face with their clients and taking them around to places, they are going to find it quite trying and difficult to give you the same results when you’re hundreds or thousands of miles away. It’s just the way it is. On the other hand, many of the companies here deal mostly with destination weddings, and have found their niche in how to get you just what you’re looking for without ever physically meeting you (until the big day, at least).
Now, let’s talk budget. Another thing in favor of this Florida destination wedding idea. Like I said before, less people = less stress. But it also means less MONEY. It’s not unusual for a wedding to cost a couple hundred dollars per person in attendance. But aside from that, how fancy you want your venue and decorations to be will determine a lot of the rest. I know I’ve probably said this a hundred times on this blog, but the military is a good thing for you. Given the shear number of bases we have here, most wedding planners have worked with their fair share of military couples. Sometimes, they go the extravagant wedding route with the typical length of engagement (like my parent’s checking account will tell you I did), but more often that not, small and simple is the way they go. And on a limited budget. Which means that these wedding companies are quite experienced in pulling off beautiful events on budgets of literally all sizes. All you have to do is tell them what you have in mind, and how much money you have to do it with. It’s amazing what they’re able to come up with.
You don’t even have to stick to just getting married on the beach (although our beaches here are phenomenal and you really can’t go wrong). You can do a yacht wedding – think about how amazing it would be to actually be on the water; pick a theme park – yep, your chance to take a walk in the shoes of a Disney princess; or pick one of the countless really cool historical sites – the Sundy House in Delray Beach, for example, is crazy charming and has everything you could ever want.
So, de-stress, enjoy your moment, and don’t let the planning overwhelm you. Have input from your own Florida destination wedding? What more ideas of specific beaches or places to go? Need to know how to find a great planner? Comment away or catch us on Facebook (facebook.com/explorefl) or Twitter (twitter.com/explore_fl)!