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Taking “Long Distance” Off the Bad Rep List

For any of you who have ever planned a wedding, you know it is a LONG process filled with dozens of appointments, more email and phone correspondences than you probably want to count, and decisions on details you never even thought actually mattered (or existed). Now don’t get me wrong, all the planning and time is definitely worth it (if you can keep your sanity), but it is extremely and painfully understandable that the whole idea makes some couples want to just run off to Vegas and never look at another fabric swatch again. But before you go to that extreme, there’s another option: Destination Wedding.

You might think I’m crazy for having just said that, because it honestly makes zero sense that planning a huge, life-changing event like a wedding would be less stressful long distance. But hear me out. You’ve got tons of friends and family at home that want nothing more than to come to your wedding and support you. And while that’s wonderful, that’s also the cause of a lot of stress. The more people in attendance = the more planning you need to do, and on a larger scale. A destination wedding makes it very easy to say that it’s just going to be the two of you and immediate family (and maybe a couple of particularly close friends). And what’s more, when it’s completely impractical for you to go meet with a bunch of vendors and be physically present for every single detail, you can relax. Skype and picture messages suddenly become perfectly acceptable means of communication and approval.

And I haven’t even gotten to the best part yet. Florida business people and wedding planners have actually realized that coming here from all over for a simple, beautiful wedding is not a trend – it’s here to stay. So, it’s quite easy to find full-service wedding planners and coordinators who will take care of darn near everything for you. They find and book the venue, reserve a block of rooms at a reputable and near-by hotel, take care of all the decorations and flowers, find you an officiant or justice of the peace, take care of the music, cake and food… you name it, they do it. You might think just anyone can do this back where you’re from. But that’s unfortunately just not the case. If you’re working with a company and/or an individual who is used to working face-to-face with their clients and taking them around to places, they are going to find it quite trying and difficult to give you the same results when you’re hundreds or thousands of miles away. It’s just the way it is. On the other hand, many of the companies here deal mostly with destination weddings, and have found their niche in how to get you just what you’re looking for without ever physically meeting you (until the big day, at least).

Now, let’s talk budget. Another thing in favor of this Florida destination wedding idea. Like I said before, less people = less stress. But it also means less MONEY. It’s not unusual for a wedding to cost a couple hundred dollars per person in attendance. But aside from that, how fancy you want your venue and decorations to be will determine a lot of the rest. I know I’ve probably said this a hundred times on this blog, but the military is a good thing for you. Given the shear number of bases we have here, most wedding planners have worked with their fair share of military couples. Sometimes, they go the extravagant wedding route with the typical length of engagement (like my parent’s checking account will tell you I did), but more often that not, small and simple is the way they go. And on a limited budget. Which means that these wedding companies are quite experienced in pulling off beautiful events on budgets of literally all sizes. All you have to do is tell them what you have in mind, and how much money you have to do it with. It’s amazing what they’re able to come up with.

You don’t even have to stick to just getting married on the beach (although our beaches here are phenomenal and you really can’t go wrong). You can do a yacht wedding – think about how amazing it would be to actually be on the water; pick a theme park – yep, your chance to take a walk in the shoes of a Disney princess; or pick one of the countless really cool historical sites – the Sundy House in Delray Beach, for example, is crazy charming and has everything you could ever want.

So, de-stress, enjoy your moment, and don’t let the planning overwhelm you. Have input from your own Florida destination wedding? What more ideas of specific beaches or places to go? Need to know how to find a great planner? Comment away or catch us on Facebook (facebook.com/explorefl) or Twitter (twitter.com/explore_fl)!

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Who Cares About a Wedding?

First of all, I’d like to apologize for not posting anything for the last couple of weeks. As it turns out, almost single-handedly planning a parade with over 4,500 trinkets and beads to attach stickers to is WAY more time consuming than I could have imagined. Go figure. But, I am happy to say it was a TON of fun and there was a phenomenal turnout. Thanks to everyone who came on Saturday; we hope you had fun!

 

Now, on to the next thing!

 

So, it’s now March. And before any of you ask, I have NO idea how that happened. I’m still trying to process the fact that it’s 2014. Just like I’m pretty positive I only started complaining about it getting dark early like two weeks ago… only to have my calendar tell me that THIS coming Sunday is time to “spring ahead” already. Seriously? I mean, I’m excited, but I feel like the calendar in my head is about six months behind where it should be.

Anyway, what March means is that we are now dangerously close to wedding season. And especially here in Florida – where the scenery is beautiful, the weather is generally gorgeous, and there is seemingly no end to the miles of insane coastline – our destination wedding traffic is way higher than average. Now I understand a lot of you are probably not planning on getting married and are wondering why this is relevant to you. Don’t worry, I’m getting there.

Whether you’re the bride, groom, family member, friend, or completely unrelated in any way to anyone getting married right now, wedding season affects you. Maybe you’re a photographer, florist, decorator, dress or suit shop owner/employee, etc. Maybe you like the beach. Or maybe you just live here and go places and/or work somewhere. Any way you look at it, the people involved in these weddings will either be visiting your business for something related or unrelated, dining at the same restaurants you work or eat at, taking over the beaches and hotels you enjoy, and increasing traffic. Basically, at the very least, they’re bringing their dollars into your local economy and their presence into your world.

Now let me clarify: it’s hard to convey tone in a blog, so please know I did not mean any of that negatively. The end of the “winter” slump and the beckoning in of lively towns is a great thing, even if you don’t like the added traffic. And weddings are great! They bring lots of (generally) happy people into one place – something we have an unfortunate shortage of more times than we’d like to admit.

So why am I telling you all of this? Well.. this might sound bad, but I’m prepping you. I’m using this blog post to tell you about tomorrow’s blog post. And before I start writing that, I want you all to weigh in. How do you feel about wedding season? Have you ever been to or planned a destination wedding? Did you get married in Florida, or have you been to a wedding here? And finally… if you have experience with any of the former, who was your all-time favorite, saved the day, couldn’t have done it without them, vendor? Because if they’re that awesome, we want to to tell people about them.

So put on your dancing shoes (or flip flops), folks. Explore Florida is walking down the aisle (or beach sand made into a make-shift aisle), and we’d love to see you all at the end of it.

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