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Don’t Get Mad.. Get Patriotic

This past Monday was Memorial Day, a holiday which is meant to recognize those in the armed forces who have served nobly and given their lives to defend our country and our freedom. For 9-5 America, it largely means a long weekend with great weather – perfect for the beach and grilling with friends and family. And while it may be upsetting, especially to those with strong ties to the military or who have lost a loved one, we also need to think about why that’s the way it is. There were blogs, articles, and videos galore surfacing last weekend bashing on how the American people are largely uninformed as to what the holiday is all about – something which I can certainly understand. In fact, one interview of beach-goers found someone who thought the Civil War saw France as the winner. As appalling as that may be, it says more about us as an overall population than anything else. Clearly, we are not taking this seriously.

Before you get defensive and think “I AM taking this seriously. I know exactly what the holiday is about. Don’t group me with those other people who take their freedom for granted” – just listen. When it comes to issues like this, we as a country separate ourselves from one another like boys and girls at a sixth grade dance. We have those who understand the holiday on one side, and those who are cluelessly happy about a long weekend on the other. We say things and get upset, but we really don’t do much of anything to bring everyone together. Now, do I think that being uneducated about Memorial Day should be a real issue? No – of course not. But it is, and we need to take it upon ourselves to fix it.

That all being said, I think we need to find a happy medium. We don’t need to go to the other extreme and force everyone to be sad, solemn and reflective all day. After all, I think it’s safe to say that most of those who have given their lives for our freedom would want to see people enjoying it. However, running around the beach drunk with a burger thinking that the Civil War involved other countries isn’t OK either. Those of us who know the importance of Memorial Day need to band together and be the change we wish to see in the world. We need to find a way to bring people together to reflect on the brave men and women of our armed forces, past and present, and understand why it is that they don’t have to go to work that day.

How we do it is still to be determined, but sitting around and complaining that people are ignorant and don’t care isn’t going to solve anything. This has been an issue for long enough and it’s time to fix it by making it a cause instead of an argument. Any ideas? Let us know in the comments below!

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Why I Had to Stop Biting My Tongue

So, we’re going to break a huge business no-no and (kinda) talk about politics. But before you click away from here for fear of a heated party-based debate and anger placed one way or the other, it’s not like that. I promise. No, what I have decided I cannot hold back on any more are the military budget cuts being proposed, and what they mean. I might be a little ranty at first, but I have a really important point to make, so just stick with me here.

Today, it dawned on me that it seemed every day I was receiving a new email in my inbox talking about one cut or another proposed to the commissary or the DoD budget. So, today I went and checked. And as it turns out, it didn’t just seem that way. I’m not becoming crazy with how busy I am (well, at least on this… overall is really another story). That thought I had is really, truly, depressingly the case. And when that became apparent, I decided I was done biting my tongue. Sure, I’ve posted articles on the company Facebook and Twitter pages about what’s going on from time to time, but I’ve tried extremely hard to state the facts and nothing more. Every time I saw something wonderfully opinionated, calling out someone or another for what they’re proposing, I basically sat on my hands to stop myself from re-tweeting it. Really, guys… I’ve been good.

But I’m done. And thankfully, my computer is keeping me from yelling. Because I’m much more calm and reasonable when I have a keyboard.

Now trust me, I obsessively budget my own finances and have for years, so I get it. If you need to make cuts, it has to come from somewhere. Money, as much as we like to hope it would, just doesn’t appear out of thin air. But why, WHY, does it seem the FIRST PLACES looked at are the DoD budget and military benefits? That’s like me deciding to cut my rent payments out of my budget to save money, but choosing to keep my wine budget in tact. Because after all, I spend a LOT more money on rent than wine, so that totally makes sense right?

Honestly, these men and women are putting their lives on the line every day, whether they’re deployed or not. Because the truth is, that could change at any second, and they signed up for that. Their families are thrown for a loop either dealing with deployments and/or moving way more than anyone should ever be asked to, all because they’ve decided their country, their loved ones, and the service is worth it. The retirees and vets have been there and done that, too, and guess what? They deserve a break. So, why does the government think that the commissaries, one of the few great day-to-day benefits provided to service members, are an easy place to start the slashing? Or that the already horrendous Tricare system should be battered even more? Oh, because it costs the taxpayers a lot of money? Is that it?

Well, last time I checked, government salaries and insane pensions and benefits cost the taxpayers a lot of money, too. And all those random projects that aren’t doing any hardworking American any good sure cost a lot of money. But those are being rolled out like donuts at a Krispy Creme.

What I’m trying to say here is we, as a country and individuals, need to appreciate our military way more than the bulk of us do. It’s not enough to simply have the valiant supporters go to events, wear the t-shirts and protest what is wrongly being done. We need a cultural shift. Our freedom to act and be any way we want to has been taken for granted, and our country isn’t even that old. We need to think back, and I mean really think back to how awful it must have been to not have it. Because if the whole military went on strike tomorrow, we’d be in a LOT of trouble. Unimaginable, almost inconceivable trouble.

Now most people and business owners I run into, especially around here, are very pro-military and supportive. But I do run into the occasional person who is almost anti-military… and it’s quite disturbing. It’s something I just don’t understand. As far as I’m concerned, if you want to be against war and violence, fine. Whatever. That’s your opinion and that’s alright. But when you cross the line to being anti-military, I just can’t handle it. How can you be actively against the group of people who have stepped up to defend you when they don’t even know you? That takes character, and heart, and bravery.

So, let’s ramp up. Let’s show these men and women just how much we support them. Let’s show them that there’s no end to our appreciation of their service and sacrifice. And let’s show them that we’re willing to make some sacrifices for them, too. Because at the end of the day, our lives would be a lot more terrible without them.

 

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